First, before anything else, you MUST know and love yourself. No one can love another with pure love unless they know and love their own self. If you do not know your self or love your self — you will only think that you may love another but you will be missing — maybe feeling sexual attraction for pure love. Love is — it is just that — love. It is nothing more. It wants nothing. It is full and abundant on its own. It is unconditional. See if you can understand this. Love is love — perfect, whole and complete. It is felt in your heart area of your body but it is so much more. It fills all vessels and radiates out in all directions. It has no boundaries. It has no judgments. Love has no laws for it has no need of laws — it is a commandment in and of itself — it is pure and whole. Love is joy.